Take your action

Thought for the day

Are you waiting for things to get better before taking action? The fact is that things will not get better until you go ahead and get yourself moving forward. The best time to start is always now. For no matter what the outside circumstances may be, the most effective strategy is to get your inner strength revved up and rolling right away. If you're waiting for things to be perfect, you'll wait forever. Instead, grab hold of what is here and now and find a way to make positive use of it. Though your excuses for delaying may be very reasonable and impressive, those excuses won't move you forward. Circumstances will improve when you make the effort to improve them. Even the smallest effort is much better than doing nothing. And small efforts that bring results will motivate you to take bigger, more effective steps. You know from experience that you can do what you set your mind to do. Set your mind on the best of what can be, and savor the challenge of making it happen.

POSITIVE QUOTE OF THE DAY :


“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ~ Helen Keller (1880-1968) American Writer
"Love is made visible by the infinite acts of kindness and service we do for others.” ~ David Boufford
“Gratitude is what defines a successful life.” ~ David Boufford
“Realize that good is present in your life right now and more will be added onto you.” ~ David Boufford
"Do not wait; the time will never be 'just right.' Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along." ~Napoleon Hill
"When you regularly take continuous action toward your most important goals, you activate the Momentum Principle of success. This principle says that although it may take tremendous amounts of energy to overcome inertia and get started initially, it then takes far less energy to keep going." ~Brian Tracy - Eat That Frog!



SUCCESS :

“Courage to start and willingness to keep everlasting at it are the requisites for success.” - Alonzo Newton Benn
“The most absurd and reckless aspirations have sometimes led to extraordinary success.” - Vauvenargues
"Four short words sum up what has lifted most successful individuals above the crowd: a little bit more. They did all that was expected of them and a little bit more." - Lou Vickery
"I would rather fail trying than succeed at doing nothing." - Denis Waitley


MAKE IT HAPPEN :

“Every time I've made a big decision in my life, it's been about letting in the possibility that maybe I could do something that I actually wanted to do and not letting people tell me that I should compromise, or that it's too big of a dream.” ~ Stephanie Savage
“Don't be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.” ~ Belva Davis



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Top 50 Indian Sites

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S.No Site DOB Type 1. Rediff.com 2/8/97 Portal 2. Indiatimes.com 22/12/96 Portal 3. In.com 20/5/97 Portal 4. Naukri.com 27/3/97 Jobs 5. IRCTC.co.in 04/06/02 Railways 6. Bharatstudent.com 01/12/00 Social Network 7. Sify.com 29/3/98 ISP 8. Mapsofindia.com 14/9/98 Maps 9. ICICIbank.com 02/6/97 Bank 10. Moneycontrol.com 28/2/00 Finacial Information 11. Hdfcbank.com 10/4/97 Bank 12. IndianRailways.com 3/2/98 Railways 13. Monsterindia.com 16/5/00 Jobs 14. sulekha.com 25/2/98 Web Blogs 15. OneIndia.in 17/2/05 News 16. ibibo.com 9/9/06 ISP 17. NDTV.com 26/9/96 News 18. masalatalk.com 15/2/00 Bollywood 19. Way2sms.com 17/12/05 Messaging 20. Justdial.com 14/11/97 Search Engine 21. Shaadi.com 11/8/97 Matrimony 22. Clickindia.com 06/5/03 Classifieds 23. Guruji.com 16/1/04 Search Engine 24. Rediffmail.com 15/8/98 Portal 25. Bharatmatrimonial.com 27/12/99 Matrimony 26. Jeevansathi.com 04/12/98 Matrimony 27. Bsnl.in 31/03/03 Bill Payement 28. eenadu.net 03/2/97 News 29. Timesjobs.com 13/12/02 Jobs 30. VSNL.net.in 28/2/03 ISP 31. Raaga.com 27/11/08 Music 32. Hindu.com 01/3/96 Newspaper 33. Makemytrip.com 08/5/00 Travel 34. Indiamart.com 08/3/96 B2B market place 35. Nseindia.com 17/8/98 Stock 36. Chakpak.com 30/1/06 Bollywood 37. Bollywoodsargam.com 27/1/01 Bollywood 38. Musicindiaonline.com 17/10/98 Music 39. Timesofindia.com 08/4/96 News 40. Hindustantimes.com 14/8/96 News 41. Pagalguy.com 05/7/02 Education 42. Tradeindia.com 25/9/98 Trade 43. Expressindia.com 13/11/96 News 44. Indya.com 09/9/99 Bollywood News 45. Relianceinfo.com 14/3/02 Reliance Site 46. samachar.com 31/05/97 News 47. wipro.com 08/12/92 I.T 48. Indiainfoline.com 31/12/98 Information 49. TCS.com 25/12/97 I.T 50. Ciol.com 08/4/96 Computers Pls share this details with your friends. Happy reading !!!!

Tips for being irresistible and charismatic

The following tips work for anyone, single or married, male or female, who would like to increase his or her overall attractiveness and become simply irresistible..

#1 Let the world come to you 

Mary had a crush on a particular fellow. Her heart just pitter-pattered every time she saw him. In an attempt to win his heart, she invited him to dinner one Friday night. Mary started planning a five-course menu – apricot brandy liver pâté, vichyssoise, chicken sautéed with shallots, cream and white wine sauce served on a bed of rice with asparagus, followed by a green salad and then dessert of homemade heart-shaped shortbread cookies and lemon sorbet. She took the day off from work to cook. When he arrived with a bottle of wine, Mary made the mistake of telling him that she had taken the day off from work to prepare. This put undue pressure on the situation. They couldn’t eat a fraction of the food. After dinner, they kissed a bit, but then he decided to leave. They saw each other, perhaps two additional times, but Mary was the one trying to get close. He really wasn’t at all interested. At the time, Mary was heartbroken.
Now Mary sees that she was throwing herself at him – how unattractive! She could have cooked something simpler and not needed to take the day off from work either. She was trying too hard to get him to like her and that ruined any chance of having a relationship. When you are attractive, people come naturally to you and effortlessly. You don’t have to seduce them or get them to like you or win them over. It takes work to seduce someone, attraction is natural and effortless.

#2 Make your home a sanctuary 

Your environment has tremendous impact on your psyche. In fact, it has been said that your environment is a reflection of your mental state. Take a look around you. Do you feel special, surrounded by things that you thoroughly enjoy? The idea is to love every single painting or piece of artwork that you have displayed. For objects that are too good to throw out, put them in cardboard box in your closet or better yet, give them to friends or charity. The objective is to make your home not only clean and organized, but also a reflection of who you are. The first place is to start your bedroom. Make it your haven, a place to retreat and relax. If you have a TV, move it out and you’ll sleep better. Set up your home so that it gives you energy. Take the time to make your home a sanctuary and it will restore and refresh you every day.

#3 Keep a gratitude list 

One way to attract more of what you want in life is to be grateful for what you already have, even if it is not enough. It would be a good idea to write down everything you are grateful for – your health, or a beautiful sunrise, or a hot cup of coffee. So what is the attraction principle here? What you focus on expands. If you focus on what you don’t have, you will attract even less. If you focus on what you do have, you will attract even more. If you are too needy or desperate, you will end up repelling the very thing you want to attract.

#4 Smile, be happy! 

There is something so attractive about a smile. If you want to be irresistible, smile. It takes more energy to frown and be grumpy than it does to be happy. Make a list of all those things that make you happy and start doing them immediately. For example, someone takes a bubble bath complete with candles, a glass of white win and good book. This helped her relax and unwind after a stressful day at work. Someone else decided to bike to work instead rive and found this was a simple way to build in daily exercise and made him feel great at the start of every day. However, if you are not in the habit of smiling, fake it a bit. Smile at least fifty people and may it a practice. A scientific study has proved that when you smile, the muscle movement releases endorphins in your body and you actually feel better.

#5 Listen like you’ve never listened before 

Most people like to think they are good listeners. Very few people actually are. Listening is an art and like any skill, takes practice. We were taught to speak, but never to listen. Listening is very attractive. As a general rule, the ideal guideline would be to talk 20 per cent of the time and listen 80 per cent of the time. Try this today and see what happens.

#6 Acknowledge people profoundly 

one simple and highly effective way to become irresistible is to convert your compliments into acknowledgments. People get compliments fairly often: “Oh what a wonderful sweater!” Or, “You sure look handsome today!” Don’t get me wrong, compliments are great but acknowledgements are even better. An acknowledgment is about who the person is, while a compliment is usually about what the person has or does. For example, “Robert I really appreciate the support you’ve shown coming all the way from New Jersey to attend this workshop. Your presence lights up this workshop. Now that’s an acknowledgment; it is very personal and leaves Robert feeling great about himself. People will want to be around you if you are in the habit of giving acknowledgments. Just change this one little thing and you’ll immediately be more attractive.

#7 Be sensuous 

You have to slow down to become sensuous. Being sensual is not about sex, but about relishing your senses of sight, sound, taste, touch and smell. Savour life and all it’s flavours and textures, its colours and shapes. We are physical beings in a physical world designed to be enjoyed and appreciated. In the rush of life, it is easy to neglect the purely sensual side of our nature. To get back into the groove, after a bath or shower, rub scented body oil all over. Do this slowly massaging and enjoying the curves and lines of your body, the silky feel of your own skin and the oil. Drink champagne to toast the sunset, wear clothes that are irresistible to touch – soft cashmere, silk and angora and listen to music that you love. Go all out – remember you are a sensuous being.

#8 Be an angel 

Newsweek reported in a cover story that more than 60 percent of the population believes in angels. If you were an angel, what would you do for the people in your life? What secret favour could you do without them getting to know about it? Once you start doing angel acts, you will radiate and glow from the inside out. However, have your need met first, or else you will never you’ll never be ready to give freely and easily. When you have your need fully met you can afford to give without needing anything in return. Here are some examples of angel acts: drop cash off in an unmarked envelope for a friend or relative who is having a tough time financially. Send an anonymous donation to charity of your choice. Do a good deed or random acts of kindness.

#9 Develop your courage 

One of the best ways of tackling fear is to start taking more risks in life. Why should you do something like this? Because taking a risk, doing something that might even scare you, will make you feel fully alive and vibrating. Consider these exercises to strengthen your risk muscle.

- Ask your boss for a raise. Most people are underpaid for what they do, so ask!
- Call someone up you’ve been meaning to call and, for, whatever reason, haven’t.
- Ask someone to meet one of your needs.
- Apologise to somebody for something you did that hurt.
- Return something that you stole or ‘borrowed’ with the appropriate apologies.
- Volunteer to give a presentation or speech.
- Take a trip by yourself.
- Take the opposing side of an argument. Stand up for what you think.
- Go to dinner by yourself to a nice restaurant.
- Take a class in scuba diving.

What is the relation to being irresistible? People who never take risks are rather dry and stale. They maybe stuck in a comfortable groove that even they find boring by this time. A risk or two will freshen you up and shake loose any cobwebs that might have been gathering around you. Keep challenging yourself to do something new and scary and you’ll attract wonderful opportunities.


Note :  (This is an article from The Secret Laws of Attraction: The Effortless Way to Get the Relationship You Want by Talane Miedaner)

Top Indian Bank details

A bank is a business center that deals in financial services. A bank is a place ere your money is safe-locked and begets more money on interest, a secure place to dispose off your earnings. Banking service in general includes receiving deposit money, lending money and processing transactions. The history of origination of bank goes back a long way. Since then, banks have influenced the economy of countries. India has a number of both government undertaken banks as well as private ones.

#1.State bankofindia.com:


State Bank of India proudly stands as one of the nationalized bank that has been catering to the needs of common mass since long. From this site of State Bank of India, you get detailed and thorough knowledge of their technological upgradation, board of directors, share holders and financial results. Apart from these, also know about the new services, policies and schemes of the bank. Anything that you want to know about this bank is provided here. If you have any complaints, this site also has the facility of customer complaint for you.

#2.RBI.org.in:


The Reserve Bank of India is the most important government bank. Visit this site to know all about the functioning and establishments of the bank. You get information on the central board, financial supervision, payment and settlement system, local board, legal framework, functions, departments, offices, trainings, subsidiaries, opportunities at RBI and lots more from this site. So, have a look in this site for full knowledge of their processings and services

#3.ICICI bank.com:

ICICI bank is third ranked among all companies listed in the Indian stock exchanges in terms of free float market capitalization. Consisting of 950 branches and 3,300 ATMs in India, ICICI is extends its banking in 17 countries. They provide a wide variety of banking products through a variety of delivery channels such as investment banking, life and non-life insurance, venture capital and asset management. Get introduced to the various benefits of corporate banking, NRI banking and personal banking with the help of this site. The innovative facility of “Reach us” gives you a number of ways to contact ICICI bank. You can also become a customer of this bank through the advanced column “Become a Customer” from this site.

#4.HDFC bank.com:


Starting its journey in August 1994, HDFC Bank Limited, now has a network of 68 branches with over 1663 ATMs in 316 cities of India. Emerging as one of the famous private banking service center of India, HDFC has formed a network and niche for itself by their high quality customer service and innovative banking schemes. Be cognizant about the various facilities of this bank. Apart from these, also know about the awards received by HDFC, careers, shareholders, privacy and terms and conditions.

#5.Union bankofindia.co.in:


Union Bank of India provides you with a wide variety of banking products such as credit cards, international debit card, kisan ATM and more. Also know from this site about the awards received, rates and the sectors they serve. Get updated and thorough news from the newsletter box and if you have any feedback to give, go for the “feedback” section of this site.

#6.Bank of baroda.com:


Bank of Baroda is one of the oldest and renowned banks of India. This site caters to all your needs and queries of banking matters related to this banking concern. Know about the national and international functionings and services provided by this bank.

#7.Alahabadbank.com:


Allahabad bank is the oldest public sector bank catering to customer need from the year 1865. The bank declares with pride their tradition of trusted efficient customer service. Log in and know the new and the wide range of attractive Deposit Schemes to the Non-Resident Indians. Apart from these, you will get solutions to all your queries and questions.

#8.Eximbankindia.com:


One of the most important banks of India dealing with the import and export, this site gives thorough information on the Export-Import Bank of India. Know from this site about their organization, objectives, management, board of directors, performance highlights, export credits, rural initiatives, export services, annual report, events, careers and lots more. Log in and update your ideas with correct and updates data and information on this bank.

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